A Bright Light Dimmed Too Soon
On Wednesday, September 3, 2025, the world became a little dimmer. Ja’Kobe Smith, a beloved son, a teammate, and a young man filled with promise, took his own life in an apparent suicide. For those who knew him, the news has shattered hearts and left a community reeling in sorrow, confusion, and pain.
Ja’Kobe was more than a name on a roster or a face in a crowd — he was someone who made others feel seen, valued, and supported. As a teammate, he brought energy and encouragement both on and off the field. As a son, he was a source of pride, laughter, and unconditional love to his family. His passing is not only a tragedy but also a painful reminder that even those who seem strong, surrounded by friends and opportunities, can be quietly carrying unbearable burdens.
In moments like this, questions arise: How could this happen? What signs were missed? What could have been done differently? These questions have no easy answers. What remains is the importance of compassion, of checking in, of recognizing that mental health struggles often remain hidden until it is too late. We must remember that reaching out, even in small ways, can sometimes make a difference — and that no one should ever feel alone in their pain.
Honoring Ja’Kobe’s Memory and Encouraging Hope
Ja’Kobe’s life, though tragically brief, was filled with moments of connection, teamwork, and love. His family, friends, and teammates will carry forward the memories of his laughter, his dedication, and his kind spirit. In honoring him, we must also honor the importance of speaking openly about mental health — removing the stigma, encouraging dialogue, and reminding everyone that help exists and healing is possible.
If you or someone you love is struggling with thoughts of self-harm or suicide, please know that you are not alone. In the United States, you can dial or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline 24/7. Talking to someone — a friend, a counselor, a trusted teacher, a coach, a therapist — can save a life.
To Ja’Kobe’s family: our hearts are with you in this unbearable time. To his teammates and friends: lean on one another, share stories, and keep his spirit alive by lifting each other up. And to the wider community: let this loss move us toward greater care, awareness, and love for the people around us.