A Life Dedicated to Service and Adventure
Joseph John Miller, Jr., 87, of Edison, NJ, led a life defined by service, community, and passion. Born on April 2, 1938, in Raritan Township, Joe grew up with a love for sports and camaraderie. A proud graduate of Perth Amboy High School, he cherished memories of playing baseball, including the time he famously stole home plate—a story he delighted in sharing with family and friends. Following high school, Joe answered the call to serve his country in the United States Navy as a Radioman Third Class aboard the USS Salem. His time in the Mediterranean and in France left him with lifelong stories and friendships, and in 2008 he had the joy of revisiting the USS Salem alongside his family, reliving those treasured memories.
Cherished Family and Everyday Joys
Beyond his service, Joe was a devoted family man whose love and warmth touched everyone he met. He is survived by his beloved wife, Rhoda, his children Christian, Jill, and Jessica, and his grandchildren Jordan, James, and Olivia. His sister, Rosemarie “Mitzi” Surma, also remembers him fondly. Joe enjoyed simple pleasures: listening to Green Bay Packers games, rooting for the Notre Dame Fighting Irish, and reminiscing about the Brooklyn Dodgers. Family vacations in Wildwood were highlights, especially his early morning walks along the beach with a metal detector, hunting for hidden treasures. These moments reflect the joy he found in life’s small wonders and his deep connection to family and community.
A Legacy of Passion and Inspiration
Joe Miller’s life was a tapestry of service, curiosity, and devotion. Whether working as a union ironworker, a hotel security guard, or a liquor store cashier, he approached every task with diligence and pride. His love for history, particularly the Civil War, inspired lively discussions and an insatiable appetite for learning. Joe’s legacy is one of integrity, dedication, and boundless enthusiasm for the things he loved most. His passing leaves a void, but the lessons, laughter, and love he shared with those around him will endure. Rest in peace, Joe—your spirit, stories, and unwavering commitment to family and community will never be forgotten.
